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Why Are Cougars More Lustful? I used to hate the phrase 'Cougar' for all your obvious reasons.
First, it evoked images of Mrs.

Robinson inside a girdle and garters, smoke billowing around her alcoholic head as she seduced a vulnerable (but willing) Benjamin.
Flash to leopard clad women over 40 showing a significant amount of cleavage, voguing in 4 inch stilettos, lurking at bars, guzzling wine and dragging home young prey.
Every time the media interviewed me, I cringed, understanding the obvious questions could be asked: 'Isn't this almost sex?' 'Isn't this nearly money?' I endeavored to describe to them that inside my 20 years of research as a human behavior research psychologist and world's foremost authority on cross generational dating and psychosexual imprinting (translation: Cougar and Cub dating) that they had it all wrong.

The media is rolling out what I coined 'The Myth of Stiffler's Mom' as with the film American Pie.
Stiffler's mom seduces a young man, yet he's not the 6 pack ab, GQ model type.
He is mature for his age, a smart.

He gets in their own head before he gets in her bed.
The younger men and the media who think the younger man/older woman relationship is just about sex or money have not been in a very relationship by having an older woman.

If they had, they'd know the truth.

People have experimented with explain many reasons mature women can be better than kids however it is still tough to point out why, since it is never as obvious as liking a younger lady.
Some men chose mature women since they are generally easier targets than younger women but some research on mature dating along with other topics have introduced many other reasons as well.
Cougar dating is best explained by people who curently have had the experience of talking and flirting with older women.

Here are the reasons why men would choose dating a cougar:

A cougar is like any other woman you could possibly meet.
Many of the same things apply trying get her interested.
You need to be confident charming and certain of yourself.

If jane is married or otherwise not, she is probably tired of the boring couch potatoes she knows.
You have to show her a glimpse of an appealing and exciting life.
Make her yearn to be young plus love.

Then expect you'll wait for dear life. Men often are convinced that they cheat on their own wives or partners having a young women because evolution programmes these to want to find someone more fertile.
Although this simply an acceptable excuse, cougar women are similarly drawn to younger men (and possibly inclined to cheat on their husbands or partners) simply because they can better match their sexual desires when compared to a man their very own age.

My research also reveals: Women in the South are generally 'closet Cougars' who are still concerned what are the boss, co workers as well as the neighbors will think of their new dating style.
Fearful for being public, ridiculed, ostracized or losing friendships or professions, they keep their dating about the down low.

The younger men (Cubs) in the South inform me it is extremely difficult to get a southern Cougar.
Their laments are endless and fraught with frustration.
I can see why, as I spent my childhood years in the deep South where patriarchy reigns supreme and change and new fangled ideas aren't readily encouraged.

It seems form of odd since most of the folks I grew up around hail from ancestry of Northern Europe; albeit the greater puritanical sects.}

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